父教子人为大道

胡錦濤對兒子胡海峰的告誡 1.說話要用腦子,做事慎言,話多無益。講話不要只顧一時痛快。​信口⋯⋯開河,以為人家給你笑臉就是欣賞,沒完沒了的把掏心窩子的話都講出來,結果讓​人家徹底摸清了家底，還偷笑你。 2.遇事不要急於下結論,即便有了答案也要等等,也許有更好的解​決方式,站在不同的角度就有不同答案,要學會換位思維。 3.對小人一定要忍讓,退一步海闊天空,實在不行把屬於自己的空​間也丟給他們,讓他們如鶯燕舞般陶醉吧.大人大度量.惹著小人就​等於惹了麻煩,所以要敬而遠之. 4.這世道沒有無緣無故的愛,也沒有無緣無故的恨,不要參與評論​任何人,做到心中有數就可以了。誰也沒有理論依據來界定好人與壞​蛋,其實就是利益關係的問題. 5.做事情一定要事先設立道德底線,小偷也清楚有些東西是絕對不​能偷的。所以說事情萬萬不可做絕,落井下石的事絕對不要幹,給人​方便給已方便. 6.對於那些經常找你麻煩甚至欺負你的人,能忍則忍,沒必要時刻​與莽夫過不去。但一定要給他攢著,新仇舊怨積累起來,正義和真理​就屬於你了,! 那麼瞅准機會一定要徹底教訓他一次,在法律賦予的許可權以內,往​死裡揍,讓小子永遠記住:除了你爹,沒人會慣你這些臭毛病. 7.明槍易躲,暗箭難防,背後算計你的小人永遠不會消失,這是中​國特色。小人不可得罪,同樣小人也不可饒恕,這是萬世不變的真理​。說到底小人也有心小的一面,對待這種人要穩准狠,你可以裝做什​麼也沒發生,天下太平,萬事大吉,然後來個明修棧道,暗渡陳倉,​以毒攻毒。讓小子知道:小人也不是誰都可以做的,做好人要有水準​,做小人同樣有難度. 8,對待愛你的人一定要尊重。愛你是有原因的,不要問為什麼。接​受的同時要用加倍的關愛回報。但是千萬不要欺騙人家的感情。愛是​最珍貴的財富,這是你用錢買不來的財富。不要讓事業上的不順影響​家人,更不要讓家庭的糾紛影響事業。那樣做很不划算,家人和事業​都受影響,甚至損失。男人要善於扛事,要把眼淚咽下去。記住:輕​視人家付出的情感就等於蔑視自己；玩物喪志,玩人喪德,愛人是一​種美德。 9.背後誇獎你的人,知道了要珍藏在心裡,這裡面很少有水分。​當面誇獎你那叫奉承,再難聽些叫獻媚,你可以一笑而過,就當什麼​也沒發生。也許不久就有求於你,對於那種當眾誇獎你的人,就疏忽​不得了。也許你轉過身去,就用指頭戳你。掌握一條原則:逢人多貶​自己,少誇別人,選先評優的時候除外。 10.有些人習慣了占你小便宜,小人小肚腸,大人大度量,有機會​坑他一把大的,出一次大血。同樣讓他記住:天下根本就沒什麼免費​的午餐,哪有白揀的便宜讓你賺。小恩小惠攢多了就是一個大窟窿,​只要接受就一定要找機會回報。行下春風望夏雨,付出就是為了收穫​,其實就是一個簡單的種子與果實的關係。千萬別讓天真給害了。記​住:人生如戲,都在尋找利益的平衡,只有平衡的遊戲才有可能玩下​去. 11.患有心理疾病的人是不負法律責任的,可以沒有理由的咬你一​口。所以對待瘋狗級的人物要敬而遠之,保持不來往,不交流。退一​步,海闊天空,相信瘋狂也是一種人格,雖不值得尊重,但自有其存​在的道理,生物鏈少不了這一環. 12,做一個人生的觀光客吧,說到底只要與人為善,以德服人,離​是非遠點,靠家人近點,便有了心安,有了愜意。樂觀的心態來自寬​容,來自大度,來自善解人意,來自與世無爭。壞心情是失眠時折磨​出來的,其實現實並沒有你想的那樣糟糕,生命有高峰也有低谷,根​本沒有一帆風順的人生,鄧小平怎麼樣？三起三落,最後還不是凡事​他說了算. 13.所謂的緣分無非只有善惡兩種。珍惜善的,也不要絕對排斥惡​的。相信擦肩而過也是緣吧,全世界近60億人口,碰上誰也不容易​,所以遇到惡緣,也要試著寬容,給對方一次機會,不可以上來就全​盤否定。 14.待人接物要擺正自己的位置,不可以老把自己當人物,老拿自​己當領導,老把自己當富翁,老以為自己是情聖,老是自我感覺良好​,即便真是小有作愚。其實人的最終結局都是一樣的,只是你把自己​看複雜了,說句俗話:千萬別把自己當回事。 网路资料分享。

距离。。

距离，人生总是要面对一大堆的距离。

而距离又是什么呢？
在人生的道路上，距离可分为两种：

-可计算的。
-不可计算的。

可计算的距离
就是所有可以用数字预测的都是所谓的可计算的距离,然而根据那数字能达到/得到那终点。

不可计算的距离
就是每个人都很摸不透的感官/感情/感觉/思想等等。

我们每个人都在自己那不可计算的人生道路奔跑。有的人会觉得他们离终点很近，也有的人认为他们永远不可能到达终点。在这可长可短的距离里，我们都会有开心与悲伤，有高有低的小距离。所谓的终点可以是人与人之间的，梦想中的等等。

起是很多的终点，都是我们自己把他拉开到我们也无法统计得到的距离。

为何？
是害怕？

只要你愿意哪怕是几公里的路途，我们都能到达/得到我们的终点。

人就应该为梦想而奔跑，不要在利用距离来给不需要的借口。

要记得什么距离都可以计算的。只要做好准备，那就不会不可计算的距离。。。

只要你愿意距离不是问题的来源。。。

ep 2 story of goverment broke

this is what my country facing now. but there is a little different base on the the video
i think you know what i talking about

never give up. believe your strong heart, believe your strong will.

Derek Redmond a professional 400m runner. in 1992, his last Olympic match. he been waiting this for 8 years to get this gold metal form the last injured.

this time in semi final, he had fail the match but he win the heart and his will.

same to us, there is nothing to affair in fail or lose. the most important is how we get up after we fail.
the getting up is the winning of our goal.

be strong in mind,
be strong in heart,
be strong in own will,
don't give up
believe we are the winner

fear

today saw this clip talk about self.

what you want for your life? it said in this world there had 2 kind of people.

don't point at others n keep complaint, what you want you should make to it belong to you is not waiting people give it to you let down the fear of yourself. everyone can make it, you should show yourself what you can show everybody. point to yourself, n ask what you want

success always in our own hand. our hand is to make the impossible to become possible.


belwo is 1 more clip for motivation

hope you enjoy

memories....

award winning Oscar 2009
short animate

a speechless animate full of humanity.

it remind a lot memories.. .wish u will enjoy it

the longest trip in nz

Eastland, Hawker bay,Wellington, Picton, Nelson, Farewell Spit, Hokitika, Greymouth, Queenstown, Arrowtown, Milford Sound, southland, Mt Cook, Kaikorua, Hanmer Spring.

Christchurch...... and back home

this trip is our last trip in North island. n the 1st day we start our crazy road trip journey

3d2n sleep car, no bath, cooking as camper, no more working life.

the last day i stay in Te Puke, i finally leaving this bloody place. no more bloody kiwi anymore HURRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Day 1

First we when to Papamoa hill for hiking. this hill very nice. very long walk. it take almost 2 hours return to car park. the view is so so to me. after this we heading to Eastland for the Eastcape the most east part in the world, mean first sunrise for the world & NZ. climbing more than 900 steps for the cape. crazy tired. too bad i make it sunset lol. we lazy to stay over night for the sunrise. on the road we meet a lot highway been washout by the raining season. the petrol here stupid expensive. most of the town here is country side. not much thing can do. nothing special also.

Day 2

morning having the wharf visit. the longest old wharf in NZ. crazy long...........

heading to Napier, a fancy town full of art, but not in winter season. too bad............

Te Mata Peak must go have time take the track. awesome challenge. I can't make it i got road to go

Hasting nothing to do there. Maybe weekend. haiz.................

finally overnight at Castle point

Day 3

having a sea side cooking breakfast.

i can't get Eastcape sunrise i get Castlepoint sunrise. taking while cooking breakfast at roadside.

after it having a great walk for for the cape side, is aw

esomely nice view

Castlepoint done, heading to Welington for ferry, & stay overnight at Lower Hutt

Day 4 morning

we taking ferry to Picton

good bye to north island

sleep at car not bath at all

this trip 1111km++

after 3 hours ferry we finally reach Picton 1st step in South Island

we head to Blenhim , Nelson, Motueka, & Farewell sprit

i meet my fren when i at Motueka, they working Ice cream seem like they very happy.

in the end we stay over night at Farewell sprit.

Day 4

Track at Farewell Sprit. awesome walk. sand beach like desert.

after breakfast from there heading to Abe Tasman tracking again. today full of tracking

seal visit also can be done here

we separate 2 way track at the Abe Tasman. time limit

after the awesome track at Abe Tasman. we head to Motueka again for the BBH stay. n gathering with y friends.

the first day bath for the last 4 day. sleep on bed.

feel like miss my 7 feet bed at Malaysia.

Day 5

We continue our journey. Nelson Lake. Nelson have 2 lake both having a pretty nice view. i feel so peaceful here.

next stop West cost.

pancake rock miracle place just a nice exploration

Hokitika

over night at car again at here

Jade town. spent a lot money there for Jade T^T

Day 6

Fox & Frank Joseb

nice track must try but tired

Lake Matheson. I cry for it the view for the mirror super nice T.T

the place i regret i didn't bring my SLR along.

end up we over night at Haast

Day 7

all the way to Milford

we check up at Arrowtown n Queenstown. this 2 town have some French style very nice

very peace town i love it , but spending here very expensive

Te Anau last town to Milford Sound.

driving for 2 hours to the port.

over night at the port car park.

been bite by damn bug.

Day 8

morning Milford Sound cruze trip. Expect too high. make us disappointed. Maybe weather not good.

but we enjoy the snow after the cruze. i make my first snow man n snow fight.

having a crazy road way out to Te Anau.

Day 9

a very surprising sunrise. i waiting it for 2 hour in the early morning with the crazy strong wind.

in the middle way, we had our 2nd time bath at beach side near Nugget Point get bite by those damn bug again damn....

afternoon heading to Dunedin nice city, the building just like France style. there have Chinese park but i didn't drop down there. i have not interest to there XD

after Dunedin, heading to Omaru. But we stop in the middle for the way for stay over night.

day 10

morning we stop by Moeraki Boulders. is a weird rock, is a nature rock in a round shape. can't make sense at all....

Afternoon we reached Omaru, a historic town. Kiwi try to crossover the town with the steampunk statue. Steampunk make a great job their skill i really salute it.

we when to library for internet & battery charging.... XD

after done, we continue again to Mt. Cook the highest mountain in the Australia.

but we only can view it from very far. We had too tired for the tracking after saw the sign board.

next stop Lake Tekapo, is a very big lake. in the spring season will be very nice the lake will cover will blossom flower. too bad what i saw only cover by rock

we overnight in somewhere just beside the road while we on the way to Timaru.

Day 11

Timaru not a special town, we stop by just for email something very important to someone.

less than 1 hour our mission done. n we just leave there direct.

First waterfall visit. tracking for the waterfall. on the beginning we met a old man he told us he use to track here 3 times a week . +.+ the track is quite danger for him actually, i can see how active he is....

finally we end up over night at picnic area again....

Day 12

My buddy wake me up in the morning cause of the weird sunrise. what i saw it the sky is cover by the red cloud, the sky just like red sea. after a while the red change to dark and getting raining, so to us we need to depart to avoid rain.

Heading to Hanmers Spring.

nothing special on the way. Drive till sleepy.... ~.~

in the late afternoon we arrived because we are early in from our timetable. so we need to slow down for the enjoying. after a short rest we have a waterfalls track again. this track is more danger. better don't do it alone. the waterfall is higher than 3 floor, very high......

after done the track take a rest at in the town area. sleep in car again. ==

Day 13

we having a tracking again, for the Hanmers Spring look out.

we taken 2 hours to done it. the main purpose now is coming. the springs. hiek hiek hiek....

relax time, the 3rd bath time. the spring is very nice we having fun at there more than 3 hours.

till our skill all wrinkle.

cause of the wrinkle we can't stay longer, & we must leave. we going to the next town Kaikora

we having a overnight at the road side again.....

Day 15

wake up with the very nice sunrise again.... wohoo...

Kaikoro nothing here. Famous with wales, we didn't take it.

after a while we leave to our last stop Christchurch.

we have a overnight in the middle of the way

riverside..........

Day 16

We repack up all our stuff, and clean up the car by river

heading to Christchurch.

this after quake city. is very sad. many place been close down. many place cant get in.....

Many thing happen to us in here as well....

this the finally we manage to get a better place to stay.

staying in a small wood house. can view star every night. pretty nice ...............

i have around 10 days will staying there

and my buddy already going to other place try to get job..

South Island Road trip 3337KM++

My journey in NZ finally done.........

total i done 10,000 km ++ for NZ

cover 80%++ in NZ

22nd Sept 2011 the day i fly back home...

Mt Maunganui hiking

First day hiking since in NZ already 5 months

4 of us day off we decided hiking at Mt Maunganui

today sunny crazy strong the sea crazy blue n crazy clear

the mood is nice, we use 45 min to hiking to the summit. the view is awesome

SWEET AS!!!!!!!

Hamilton

big city with a very nice garden

nothing much can do here.i been here several time

Hamilton return 246 km++

coromandel

crazy 1 day trip

morning raining received call by contractor today can't work. then we suddenly decided go Coromandel for travel. A 6 hours driving 12 hours travel trip

this trip all about beach side . is suppose have a lot nice beach side photo but we end up not much cause raining.

nothing can say here. all the road here is crazy sharp, the first time i drive till my both hand can't let go from the steering .

thing i found here was some weird road, 1 feet long muscle. the L&P drink is nice.

this trip 425km ++